Episode 89 – Shari Johnson – Evangelical Christian Mom with a Lesbian Daughter (Part 2 of 2)

Posted on Monday, 23 Jul 2012 by johnselig

Shari Johnson in part two of a two-part is an Evangelical Christian mother whose life turned upside down when her 37 year old daughter, Cholene, called her and told her she was gay in July 2002. Shari has just published a book called, “Above All Things: The Journey of an Evangelical Christian Mother and Her Gay Daughter.” In part two of our conversation Shari continues her discussion of reconciling her daughter being a lesbian with her deeply held religious beliefs, attending her daughter’s wedding and starting the PFLAG chapter in Odessa, TX. This podcast should be shared widely with LGBT people who come from Evangelical Christian families and with Evangelical Christian parents who LGBT children.

 

Shari Johnson, author, mom and founder and first president of PFLAG chapter in Odessa, TX

 

Above All Things: The Journey of an Evangelical Christian Mother and Her Gay Daughter by Shari Johnson (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2012

 

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Websites and Organizations Mentioned in This Episode:
PFLAG’s National Site – Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays
PFLAG Odessa, TX – Shari Johnson’s PFLAG Chapter
Family Acceptance Project
Goats For The Old Goat

 

Books and Movies Mentioned in This Episode:

Prayers for Bobby: A Mother’s Coming to Terms with the Suicide of Her Gay Son, by Leroy Aarons (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 1996

Prayers for Bobby – The Movie (Amazon Movies), released in 2010

What the Bible Really Says about Homosexuality, by Daniel A. Helminiak, Ph.D. (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2000

Stranger at the Gate: to Be Gay and Christian in America, by Mel White (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 1995

 

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Episode 88 – Shari Johnson – Evangelical Christian Mom with a Lesbian Daughter (Part 1 of 2)

Posted on Wednesday, 11 Jul 2012 by johnselig

Shari Johnson in part one of a two-part is an Evangelical Christian mother whose life turned upside down when her 37 year old daughter, Cholene, called her and told her she was gay in July 2002. Shari has just published a book called, “Above All Things: The Journey of an Evangelical Christian Mother and Her Gay Daughter.” Shari chronicles her journey in coming to terms with her daughter being a lesbian and reconciling that with her deeply held religious beliefs. In December 2010 Shari founded and became president of a chapter of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and gays) in Odessa, Texas. In this episode Shari share receiving the shocking news from Cholene and how she dealt with it, coming to terms with what it meant, learning how to deal with family members, friends and members of her faith, writing her book which took six years and meeting Cholene’s partner. This podcast should be shared widely with LGBT people who come from Evangelical Christian families and with Evangelical Christian parents who LGBT children.

 

Shari Johnson (left) and her husband James, with Cholene in Granada for Cholene’s White Coat ceremony at the start of med school, January 2011

 

Above All Things: The Journey of an Evangelical Christian Mother and Her Gay Daughter by Shari Johnson (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2012

 

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Websites and Organizations Mentioned in This Episode:
PFLAG’s National Site – Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays
PFLAG Odessa, TX – Shari Johnson’s PFLAG Chapter
Family Acceptance Project

 

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Episode 87 – Dawn Meifert – Marketing Expert, Photographer and LGBT and Women’s Rights Activist (Part 2 of 2)

Posted on Wednesday, 04 Jul 2012 by johnselig

Dawn Meifert in part two of a two-part conversation continues her discussion on the Republican War on Women.

 

Dawn Meifert, Marketing Professional, Photographer and LGBT and Women’s Rights Activist

 

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Websites and Documentary Mentioned in This Episode:
Dawn Meifert Marketing Group – Dawn Meifert’s marketing firm’s website
Southern Poverty Law Center
Miss Representation – Documentary by Jennifer Siebel Newsome
Joan Rivers – A Piece Of Work – Movie exposes the private dramas of irreverent, legendary comedian and pop icon Joan Rivers

 

Books

The New World Marketplace: How Women, Youth And Multiculturalism Are Shaping Our Future by Farnaz Wallace (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2012

The Little Blue Book: The Essential Guide to Thinking and Talking Democratic by George Lakoff and Elizabeth Wehling (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2012

Just How Stupid Are We?: Facing the Truth About the American Voter by Richard Shenkman (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2008

My West: Personal Writings on the American West – Past, Present and Future by Patricia Nell Warren (Amazon Books), published in 2011

 

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Episode 86 – Dawn Meifert – Marketing Expert, Photographer and LGBT and Women’s Rights Activist (Part 1 of 2)

Posted on Wednesday, 27 Jun 2012 by johnselig

Dawn Meifert in part one of a two-part conversation discusses her marketing firm, Dawn Meifert Marketing Group, the protest she organized against Sarah Palin who visited Dallas during the 2008 campaign and begins a discussion on the Republican War on Women.
 

Dawn Meifert, Marketing Professional, Photographer and LGBT and Women’s Rights Activist

 

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Dawn Meifert Marketing Group – Dawn Meifert’s marketing firm’s website
Southern Poverty Law Center
Miss Representation – Documentary by Jennifer Siebel Newsome

 

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Episode 85 – John Selig Outspoken: The Book – JFK and The Age of Camelot & President Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Posted on Sunday, 20 May 2012 by johnselig

Two essays that will go into The Book are featured. The first deals with my recollection of President John Kennedy.. He was the hero of many in my parent’s generation and the first president I remember. I saw JFK when he campaigned for office and his assassination still is vividly in my memory. The second shares the impact on me of President Barack Obama’s recent announced support for same-sex marriage.

 

President Kennedy was shot just past the signs at 12:30 p.m. CST on November 22, 1963. The Grassy Knoll is past the signs on the right, Dealy Plaza is on the left and the Texas Schoolbook Depository is to the right but not in the photo

 

The Texas School Book Depository Building from North Houston Street. President Kennedy’s limousine turned left onto Elm street at the left edge of the photo right in front of the Texas School Book Depository. As the limo drove down Elm Street Lee Harvey Oswald shot JFK from the corner window on the 6th floor. It is the only square window to the right of the arched windows above the Elm Street entrance

 

President Kennedy’s limo was off the right edge of this photo and behind were I was standing when he was shot. The Grassy Knoll is to the left off the left edge of the photo. Oswald was in the window just below the top right window of the Texas School Book Depository which is to the left of the people in the photo. The tree is blocking almost all of the window from where I took the photo

 

The First Family – Comedy Album by Vaughn Meader (CD on Amazon | MP3 on Amazon)

 

Rodolfo and me at Dallas Celebration in Oak Lawn on Wednesday evening May 9, 2012 hours after President Barack Obama announces his support of same-sex marriage, Photo by David Taffet

 

The Reverend Dr. Jo Hudson of the Cathedral of Hope and rally organizer Daniel Gates Dallas Celebration on May 9th

 

Media covering the Dallas celebration rally on May 9th

 

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Episode 84 – Farnaz Wallace: The New World Market Place (Part 2 of 2)

Posted on Thursday, 10 May 2012 by johnselig

Farnaz Wallace, part two of a two-part conversation. Farnaz Wallace is a consultant and speaker who draws on her years as former Executive Vice President and Chief Marketing Officer at Church’s Chicken to discuss the New World Market place and three major macro trends: the shifting role of women at home and at work, the new values and ideological power of youth culture and the growth and influence of multicultural consumers and societies. This has implications not only for corporations in understanding their customers but also for organizations in both the LGBT and mainstream in attracting volunteers and serving the community. This episode focuses on her new book “The New World Market Place” and the macro trends on youth and multiculturalism. Farnaz also talks about returning to Iran for a visit in 2000 for the first time in over twenty years and also what the Iranian people are really like.

 

Farnaz Wallace, Consultant and Speaker

 

Farnaz Wallace, my husband Rodolfo Arredondo and I together with friends at a Persian restaurant in Dallas in March 2012

 

The New World Marketplace: How Women, Youth And Multiculturalism Are Shaping Our Future – Farnaz Wallace’s new book (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2012

 

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Websites Featured in This Episode
http://www.farnazglobal.com
We Love You – Iran & Israel
Episode 43 – Arsham Parsi, Iranian Refugee Activist and Founder of Iranian Queer Organization

 

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Episode 83 – Farnaz Wallace: The New World Market Place (Part 1 of 2)

Posted on Thursday, 03 May 2012 by johnselig

Farnaz Wallace, part one of a two-part conversation. Farnaz Wallace is a consultant and speaker who draws on her years as former Executive Vice President and Chief Marketing Officer at Church’s Chicken to discuss the New World Market place and three major macro trends: the shifting role of women at home and at work, the new values and ideological power of youth culture and the growth and influence of multicultural consumers and societies. This has implications not only for corporations in understanding their customers but also for organizations in both the LGBT and mainstream in attracting volunteers and serving the community. This episode focuses on her new book “The New World Market Place” and the macro trend on women. She discusses the importance of focusing on customers and also her immigrating to The United States from Iran when she was fifteen.
 

Farnaz Wallace, Consultant and Speaker

 

The New World Marketplace: How Women, Youth And Multiculturalism Are Shaping Our Future – Farnaz Wallace’s new book (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2012

 

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http://www.farnazglobal.com

 

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Episode 82 – John Selig Outspoken: The Book – Rush Limbaugh and Dr. Laura – Negligence by The Advertising Industry

Posted on Tuesday, 27 Mar 2012 by johnselig

The recent furor over Rush Limbaugh’s calling Sandra Fluke a slut and a prostitute brings back memories of my days with StopDrLaura.com in 2000 and 2001 when we combined Internet activism with protests in 34 cities. We got over 170 advertiser to drop her show in the U.S. and Canada having flooded companies phones, faxes and emails that advertised on her TV show. I discuss the controversies and responses around Rush Limbaugh and Laura Schlessinger and how advertising agencies failed to protect their clients by warning them against running ads on controversial programs. I also explain the science behind purchasing radio and TV Advertising.

 

U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder, Jr.

 

Valerie B. Jarret, Senior Advisor to President Obama

 

Judy Shepard, Matthey Shepard’s mom & Founder & President of the Matthew Shepard Foundation’s Board of Directors

 

Media covering the White House LGBT Conference on Safe Schools and Communities

 

Me at candlelight vigil for Trayvon Martin on the Grassy Knoll in Dallas on Sunday March 25, 2012

 

StopDrLaura.com Archive website can be visited by going to StopDrLaura.com.

 

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StopDrLaura.com – Archived Site

 

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Episode 81 – John Selig Outspoken: The Book – One Person at a Time – A Coming Out Chronicle

Posted on Sunday, 19 Feb 2012 by johnselig

I share the breakup of my thirteen-year marriage to Linda, the coming to terms with my depression and my coming out of the closet. This was an emotionally difficult period of my life but one where I grew stronger by facing my demons. I became a better parent to my son Nathaniel who remained with me after the divorce. Besides those interested in my life this will prove useful for others who are in or have been in mixed-orientatiion (or as I call them, heterosexless marriages) as well as any person dealing with their own coming out issues. Resources for both gay and straight spouses, their children and people coming out of the closet are also mentioned at the end of the podcast.

 

John Selig – A recent photo Rodolfo took of me on our balcony

 

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Websites and previous episodes featured in this episode:
Straight Spouse Support Network
The Other Side of the Closet: The Coming-Out Crisis for Straight Spouses and Families Amity Pierce Buxton, Ph.D.’s Book
Episode 17: Amity Pierce Buxton, Ph.D., Founder of the Straight Spouse Support Network
Family Equality Council
Episode 31: Jennifer Chrisler, Executive Director of the Family Equality Council
Colage People with a Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer parent
Episode 34: Beth Teper, Executive Director of Colage
Coming Out: An Act of Love, Rob Eichberg’s Book
The Experience Workshop
Episode 7: Honey Ward, Experience Workshop Facilitator

Article mentioned in this episode:
Left Behind – A Special Report; When One Spouse Is Gay And a Marriage Unravels, New York Times, April 4, 1995

 

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Episode 80 – David Mixner – Political Consultant, Campaign Manager, Fund-Raiser, Strategist, Gay & AIDS Activist & Writer

Posted on Wednesday, 15 Feb 2012 by johnselig

Newsweek called David Mixner “the most powerful gay man in America.” David Mixner has been a political and human rights activist for over 51 years and along the way had over 300 friends dies from AIDS and he personally delivered over 90 eulogies over a 2-year period. David’s respite in Turkey Hollow, ten miles from his nearest neighbor, gave him an opportunity to heal, commune with nature and befriend all sorts of wildlife. This gem of a book is a collection of essays about his life as well as delightful experiences he enjoyed while living in Turkey Hollow. David Mixner has been friends with President Bill Clinton since their college days and David was key in getting the LGBT Community’s support to back President Clinton during his 1992 campaign.

 

David Mixner, recent photo

 

David Mixner’s new book, At Home With Myself: Stories from the Hills of Turkey Hollow” (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 2011

 

David Mixner’s autobiography, “Stranger Among Friends” (Amazon Books | Powell’s Books | IndieBound), published in 1996

 

Publicity for David Mixner’s Off-Broadway one-man show at Dixon Place in July 2011

 

David Mixner staring in his one man show called “From The Front Porch” at Dixon Place in New York City in July 2011

 

David Mixner bowling at Oxford University after winning his debate several years ago

 

David Mixner speaking at a Victory Fund event in 2010

 

David Mixner has Bill Clinton’s ear at a fund raising event during President Clinton’s 1992 presidential campaign

 

Wynn Wagner with David Mixner in September 1992 when David was in town for the weekend with Stonewall Democrats where we were all working to get President Clinton elected to his first term. This is the weekend that I met both Wynn and David. Note – the coffee in the picture was not the coffee Wynn brought – his was much better!

 

John Selig (aka “Moi”) with David Mixner in September 1992 when he was in Dallas for the weekend with the Stonewall Democrats. We held multiple events to work to get President Clinton elected to his first term. I think I had that mustache for about a month. David Mixner had a profound impact on me that lasts until this day. David has a brilliant mind, a warm heart and an infectious sense of humor.

 

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David Mixner’s website:
Live from Hell’s Kitchen” which David updates regularly with political insight, LGBT issues and the arts

Dillie The Deer:
Dillie The Deer’s Website
Dillie, The Pet Deer on CBS News (takes a few seconds longer to load)

 

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