Episode 24 – Pat Stone Came Out After Being Married 35 Years & Started “Late Bloomers”

Episode 24 – Pat Stone shares her story about coming out at the age of 53 in 1996 being married for thirty-five years. Pat was the Dallas PFLAG Chapter President at the time which provided her the skills to start a support group called Late Bloomers that she has been running for ten years.


Pat Stone

Pat Stone, Founder of Late Bloomers


Pat Stone's New Book

Pat’s new book “Awakening: How a 53 Year Old Wife and Mother “became” a Lesbian” (Amazon Books) was published in March 2009. It is a must read for women who are coming out later in life. It is also a great read for men coming out later in life too as well as straight spouses who are dealing with the news that their spouse is LGBT.


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Pat Stone’s website:
Pat’s website. Order her new book here too!

Websites for support organizations:
Late Bloomers Website (not Pat’s Group in Dallas) no longer available
PFLAG (Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays)
Straight Spouse Network
Family Equality Council (for LGBT Parents)
Colage (Support for kids with LGBT Parents)

Front page article on Pat Stone in the Dallas Observer, published on 1/30/97:
Late Bloomers Article on Pat Stone in Dallas Observer

Recommended Books:
Lesbian Epiphanies: Women Coming Out in Later Life, by Karol L. Jensen, Ph D.
Married Women Who Love Women, by Carren Stock
From Wedded Wife to Lesbian Life: Stories of Transformation, Edited by Deborah Abbott and Ellen Farmer
Lesbians at Midlife: The Creative Transition by Barbara Sang, Joyce Warshow, and Adrienne J. Smith
The Other Side of the Closet: The Coming-Out Crisis for Straight Spouses and Families, Revised and Expanded Edition, By Amity Pierce Buxton, Ph D.


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2 Responses to Episode 24 – Pat Stone Came Out After Being Married 35 Years & Started “Late Bloomers”

  1. Hi John,
    I just heard your interview with Pat Stone and as the author of “Married Women Who Love Women,” I wanted to compliment you and Pat on the fine job you did.
    I’d also like to say that two of the chapters in my book are for and about the husbands of married women.
    In addition, “Married Women Who Love Women, Second Edition,” will be coming out during the summer of 2008. Additional chapters will include “Redefined Marriages,” “the Single Lovers of Married Women,” and “Labeling/Lesbian or Bisexual.”
    Thank you once again for the wonderful job you are doing for the gay and lesbian communities.
    In sisterhood,
    Carren Strock

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